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I have to say I am kind of lost. I want to find the very essence of me where I am happy. Giggly happy. And so I have decided to write myself a list. A list for 2016. There it goes.


Buy pretty and comfortable shoes. You're gonna be in varsity soon and trust me. Shoes tell a lot about the person you are. Get rid of those flaky flats and invest all your savings on combat boots or lacy tolerable heels. Trust me. You'll need them.

Write. Start a journal. Improve your sentences. Grow a discipline

Keep up with other people. Now this is most important. Because you are a business student and you have to engage with people. Make phone calls to your old best friends, chat a while, see how they've been doing. Learn some humor. Laugh it out. Be there for your friends and family.

Give yourself treats! Get all dolled up whenever you have a party to attend to. Keep yourself fresh and pretty. Get your lazy ass out the sofa and start taking care of your skin.

Drink lots of water.

Eat healthy. 

Read. Cultivate this habit more strongly. Never stop reading. Start a new book after finishing one.

Love yourself a great deal. Don't be too narcissistic though. Love your flaws. Flaws are what make you human.

Update your social sites. Use technology at its best.

Be loving, charming and all sorts of thing that are attracting.  

Let go of all past problems and make a new start.

Don't be a crybaby. Deal with the real world. Be a bitch if you have to sometimes. 

Participate in the competitions. Be competitive, jealous and feisty. Just don't be a looser.

Think precisely every matters. Think what's good for yourself. Don't let anyone think for you.

Know politics. 

Watch BBC instead of tv shows.

Most importantly enjoy your life at 2016 or started from now. Take challenges. Welcome new things. Say yes to insanity! Dance it out. Sing it out. Set goals. Work hard. Have courage. And be sarcastic toward life. I think you'll have an awesome year. xoxo



























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