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I know this is creepy and juvenile, I kind of researched on friendship and love compatibility based on zodiac signs. Mine and his.

All I needed was his birth date. And facebook makes that quite easy. So guy number one is born in October which makes him a Libra, and I kind of wanted him to be Virgo. I like Virgo males. Anywho, So Aries and Libra, both are sunsigns,  I don't have a fucking idea what that means, and as it appears, each sign has qualities that other sign lacks, so that I guess makes them a good pair...Because one completes another, no?

Aries is a fire sign and Libra is an air sign. Air supports fire and keeps it burning. Libra are fascinated by the vivacity and force of Aries. Aries are thrilled by the charm and polished nature of Libra. (I AM INDEED!!) However, they must learn to work in concurrence. This could be difficult considering the polarity of their signs and their difference of nature. Aries’ energetic, impetuous nature might often be at odds with the gentle, peace loving nature of Libra. Nevertheless, if they could work together, they could be a prolific pair. They are both good at starting things, but tend to work in different directions. Aries lead the partnership from an action-oriented viewpoint, and Libra lead the partnership from an intellectual viewpoint. Like Aries, Libra enjoys being the leader in any situation. However, Aries make use of their strong willed and dominant nature to issue commands to others, while Librans use their charm and charisma to get people to obey them.(He does That!!) This desire to be in charge might give rise to struggles in their relationship, and both signs have to learn to compromise with the other. Libra, with their ability to see all sides of any argument, is more likely to give in than Aries. Libra also tends to yield more often just to preserve the peace that they adore so much. 

Okay guy number 2 is Scorpio. Let's see, Aries and Scorpio. 

 Think of this combination of signs through the most aggressive image of Fire and Water element. Fire evaporates Water, just like Aries shatters Scorpio’s feelings. Water damps down Fire, just like Scorpio wears Aries out. They seem to bring out the worst in each other and this is nobody’s fault, it is just hard to reconcile so much focused energy that moves in two different directions. Their relationship is like the process of nuclear fusion and often just too much to handle.

Another summary goes like this, the starting of their affection toward each other might seem passionate and meant-to-be kind, but eventually, water wears out fire, so later period, desire dies.  And I can so relate to this with guy number 2 because at the starting, I was kind of into him, and now, I really can't see us going anywhere. 

 Note: It was all just for fun. I enjoy doing these random stuffs. These two guys have been my friend, slightest friend though, we're not that close, I just feel some attraction going on. Although guy number 1 has no such feelings, I can assure. Anyway, I enjoyed it. Interesting findings. :P



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