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I am like bouncing in a trampoline of emotions. Sometimes high sometimes low.
He is good on paper. But I am not sure how much in reality we could be compatible. I hope he is not full of himself. I hope what he says, are truth not lies to feed me and make me addicted toward him.
The ideal situation now for me is to have control in myself, not get carried away, not push myself hard on this, whatever attachment I have with him....Because he is some pixels on the phone screen right now.

I have thought it through. And you know what I like most about a guy, what attracts me most? The effort he makes....This guy in my phone, I feel like he has it easy. He knows I have never been on relationships or any kind of things and he thinks you know what ? I can easily get this girl impressed.

But little does he know, I over analyze every behavior, every little words and I am looking out. I have to protect myself from getting hurt at the end of this though heartbreaks are unavoidable.

I deserve a good guy, because I am good energy and I am entertaining and he has to be someone who makes the effort as well...If I find him, being like you know you do the work, I will simply tell him to move on and just stop the texting.

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