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Hi B.
I got hired as an english tutor in an online global company. I took 2 classes today and taught english and the pay is not much but it sure did give me some purpose in life.

My niece is having trouble in speaking. She's three and her therapist had concerns. My entire world came crashing down since I heard. And I kept crying to my creator. I kept complaining, I still do.

Since she was born, all I could think about was when she would talk with me. Call me by Khalamoni. You know how much my heart craves for that sound? You know how much I want to hug her, hold her little hands again? I can't go to Canada because I don't have money. When I will earn that much, the first thing I am gonna do is visit her. I can't take it anymore. I miss her so much. I miss my sister too.

The future will always be uncertain. Unpredictable. Maybe little predictable, but still.

This world is a cruel place for kids, for teenagers for growing adults. It is a shitty place. It makes you want to not wake up anymore some days.

But you know what? Maybe. Those days, all we had to do is wake up, go on and try our hardest.

I am still very alone. But I don't feel lonely. And that is a very good news in a very long time!

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