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 Dear B,

I am giving love a second chance and this time we are planning a future together. 

I know I was adamant about not getting back together but something in my heart said, we are not finished  yet. I could not stop thinking about the 'what if' part. 

I know probably because of the societal pressure I may have been thinking about marriage a lot these days. It is  also the fear of being alone. This world is scary already. I want somebody to rely on. We have that confidence in each other. I am not sure if I can get that comfort in other men. He has been very warm to me since the day we met except our breakup episode. 

Right now, I have a lot of things to think about. 

A. Are we financially capable to pull off a marriage? - Still questionable. 

B. Will our families accept us? - I am more worried about my family. 

C. Are we ready to face the future struggles and help each other in need? - Will have to see. 

D. Will we be able to blend in? - We have our separate social groups and also family dynamics. It is not just that we be together all by ourselves. It is a lot of adjustments and learning things about each other. 

I would not say this is a smooth transition. There is a lot, a lot at stake. 

If this is all meant to happen, the universe will take care of it. 


We are just gonna play our roles. Fate will catchup. 

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